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I was 21 when I passed but I don’t count that as I’d been learning since 16 but had breaks between “stints”.

My OH is learning at the age of 31, I won’t lie he is struggling with nerves as he was in an accident when he was 17 (he wasn’t driving) and he’s never really gotten over it. But, hes using the instructor I had, who is nothing short of…[Read more]

im a driving instructor and teach a lot of slightly older ladies, and it is normally ladies who learn late, either after theyve had their children, or if their husband gets ill and cannot drive. Go for it, but make sure you get an instructor you like and you get on with. Someone who makes lessons fun. Honestly the more you start to enjoy them, the…[Read more]

I passed at the age of 22 (I think it was 22!) but had gaps between the tests (4!!!!)

I absolutely hated my lessons. Don’t know why, just hated them. I worked Mon-Thurs and always booked them for first thing Friday mornings to get them out the way. The final time I passed, it was the year the new laws were coming into force in the July, so I…[Read more]

I finally took and passed my test with one minor at the age of 38. I’d ridden little motorbikes for years so was pretty confident. Get the best instructor you can find. I paid £30 for mine but only needed 3 lessons as he was just so good. Worth every penny!

My friend learned in her early 60s after her husband’s eyesight deteriorated so that he could no longer drive. It didn’t take her any longer than most learners to pass her test. She didn’t enjoy driving on long journeys but got them both around locally for many years.

I’m just starting now at 29,
Can’t wait to have extra freedom!

My friend learnt at 57 after her OH died. Believe me, if she can do it anyone can!

My wife didnt convert her license when she passed and has just relearnt at 34 after a 12 year gap. Dont accept a poor teacher you dont get on with you’ll waste your time. Can you sweet talk someone to let you drive a 4×4 round a field? Get a feel for things?

I learnt at 25. Took me about a year. Didn’t really want to learn but due to living in countryside didn’t really have a choice if I wanted to get anywhere.
It gives you so much independence. Find a instructor that you get on with and you will be fine. Good luck!

Thank you everyone x

There are all sorts of potential factors, and I really do try to appreciate the small things whenever I can. Quite often, if a negative thought comes along, wintry to think of something positive to counteract it or at least change my focus!

I’m not on the pill, but I do have a mirena coil which could be having an…[Read more]

I ate day old donuts whilst running for the bus

Then scrolled through Instagram on the bus seeing everyone’s protein shakes and smoothies for brekkie.

But I did manage to get up super early and ride before work so swings in roundabouts.

I’m feeling like I’ve lost my mojo a bit recently too. A lot of it is to do with work situations but I feel…[Read more]

Coming off social media for a bit helped me lots – comparison is the thief of joy and all that.

If you do use it, remember that you’re viewing everyone’s highlights, and not the drudgery that everyday life brings. No-one posts about that stubborn fungal nail infection, or that you’ve eaten a bag of Doritos in your underwear and have guacamole on…[Read more]

Are you on the pill?

I was on different versions of it for about five years on and off and recently I’ve come off it for good and my God the difference in the way I feel is incredible.

Any idea why you’re feeling the way you are?

I was feeling a bit meh about a year ago, and then in November the company I work for had an impulsive restructure. I lucked out on it (unusually for me), and all the people I work closely with bar one changed to a fantastic bunch who are brilliant at their jobs. The difference it has made is amazing,…[Read more]

The naff weather won’t have helped. Can you get a sunshine break – just a few days can really change your outlook. Or do a review each evening, 3 things that happened in the day which you enjoyed. If there aren’t any, then you need to be working on it and maybe lowering expectations for a little while. Mojo often links to sunshine for some people,…[Read more]

I think the modern pressure and expectation to be fulfilled and happy at all times is a hard one to live up to for most of us. Getting pleasure from the small things imho is a grat way to help you. A quiet cup of tea, a peaceful walk. You’ll get your mojo back.

Welcome to the real world.
Might be worth getting your vit d etc levels checked.

My latest dream was that I was on holiday in Cyprus – I knew it was Cyprus because that’s my most recent holiday, but actually the hotel and surroundings were Copenhagen, where I went years ago with my ex-husband! It was the evening before we were due to fly home, when we were looking out of the window and we saw a plane – painted up to look like…[Read more]