Thank you for this, after posting I felt guilty about how I felt about her, and a tad disloyal! Oh dear.
Yes I think I WILL have to be specific and not woolly about future arrangements; that was the problem this time I think, plus I know she is dealing with a lot of changing things in her life right now and does look to me as a kind of Guru as it feels like she needs somebody to tell her what to do.
Yes she IS sad, I wouldn’t disagree with that …… there are some things so precious that money can’t buy them.
